Relationships Can Be Easy

First I'd like to say Merry Christmas!

Now I know that this is a weird topic to bring about on Christmas but something happened between me and this guy I'm completely head over heels for. It's been like this for a year but because I can't share my feelings he doesn't know. And I don't plan on telling him. I've watched relationships around me. Most of them are anything but exemplary but there are some things I found out.

Relationships are hard. They're hard with friends, best friends, potential friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, relationships with parents, or sisters. What's constantly drilled into the head of society is that communication is a must. It is. I believe that with all my heart. However, what I think is key, mandatory, realistic, however you want to look at it it is very very important that a couple must make each other fall in love with themselves everyday. This idea was confirmed when I saw 50 First Dates. Even though the woman suffered from Memory Loss every day Adam Sandler's character was forced to try over and over again to make her fall in love. It was a sacrifice for him yes, and though they didn't dwell on it she had a sacrifice as well. The couple had to remake their magic that made them fall in love with each other in the first place. I'm not suggesting that with this idea that not all couples are never going to fight. I have an inkling that it's more likely than one thinks but I think working through it without words that hurt. I think that there are relationships out there that are like this. Consider this a congratulations. I hope the love that brought you together will keep thriving in you for the rest of your time together.